Read this news… Net Nikah solemnised
Really interesting… marriage was solemnised online through Web-Camera and marriage was valid under Mulim Laws, as all the required conditions provided under Muslim Law were fulfilled like presence of witness, etc.
But it will be difficult under Hindu laws, as per sec 7 of Hindu Marriage Act, the marriage is to be performed as per the customary rites and ceremonies of either party. Which normally includes “SAPTDPADI” i.e. taking of seven steps by the bridegroom and the bride jointly before the sacred fire….
… Hindus need amendment of law for marrying online 😉
Poonam says
Not surprising.. Muslims ki toh shaadi hi kya hai..wohi jo Christians ki hai
bas shaadi ho gayi. 🙂
Hindu shaadi main hi woh masti hai.. woh apnapan hai..woh saathgiri hai..jo aur koi shaadi main nahi hai.. :yes:
Ankur says
Right Poonam!
And do you know… Muslim Law provides for marriages as “Contract” (i.e. legal agreement).
Whereas Hindu Law provides for it as something which is sacred ❗
Govind says
Hindu marriages are more fun celebrating. Its not saying kabul hai or I will like other religions.
You folks must watch south indian marriages, its very interesting. which is for three days, I always enjoy attending them.I have nt seen a marriage in North. So cant say, how its there. 🙂
Ankur says
Marriage for three days. Interesting !!!
But you must have seen one North Indian Marriage… i.e. in Hum Aapke Hain Kaun 😉
Poonam says
Govind..neeraj aur meri shaadi main jarur aana.. then u will see a north indian shaadi 😛
that yaa phir jab Ankur shaadi karega..
Ankur ❗ kab shaadi kar raha hai?? :party:
Manpreet says
archer… shaadi ka card mujhe pakka bhejio… i will be there :clap:
Online marriage.. no use.. koi mazza nahin hai!!
But, on second thoughts, it will save so much money… people litterally spend lacs of moeny on marriages…!! don’t think.. thats it worth spending so much!! Just my opinion!!
Ankur says
First Poonam is getting married, then Manpreet, then perhaps Govind… and I am last in queue 😉
Anyway I will surely send you card, when ever that time comes 🙂
Right manpreet, online marriages will save a lot of money :thumb:
Poonam says
ladkon log hamesha paise save karne main lage hui hote ho…
abey oye..ootho!! shaadi ek baar hoti hai life main.. dhoom dhaam se karni chaiye haaaaaaaaaaaaaan… 😀
Manpreet says
Poonam… you interpreted me wrong!!
What i wanted to say was that, in India… people tend to spend almost all their life-savings on marriages.. is spending 15-20 lacs rupees worth? I don’t think so… would be better if the newly weds can use this 15-20 lacs on something that will secure their future!! Marriages today have become more of a show-off event!!
I’ve seen people who don’t have lots of money.. but still spends lacs and lacs of money just to keep their heads up in the society!! People these days are somehow forced to spend!! I’m against that!!
Manpreet says
And, archer dude, me not getting married atleast in next 2-3 years… so hold on!! 😛
Govind says
Hmm, filmon main shaadi filmi hai. Also online one, there is no fun. Real life main its much different n more fun. As we ourselves become part in it. 🙂
Yaar, mujhe bhi shaadi ka card zaroor bejna. 🙂
@Poonam: Yeah, shaadi is onetime issue. It should be celebrated grandly. But we also should take care, that we dont waste money unnecessarily. With out spending much, we can also celebrate it well. Dont you think so??. 🙂
Poonam says
yes definitely agree manpreet there should be a limit somewhere..maybe 15 lacs is too much. agree on the show off part too….har cheej ki limit toh honi chaiye.
shaadi should be done in a fashion that it will be remembered..especially for the bride and groom….i know that even we will set a limit to how much we want to spend…can’t spend ur life fortune on just one event 🙂
Poonam says
agreed Govind. There should definitely be a limit. :yes:
Ankur.. shaadi karo!!!! Demand aa gayi hai from the junta. :yes:
waise bhi..mere ko toh kaafi dino se mann kar raha hai ke main koi ki shaadi attend karu. :yes:
Ankur says
Thanks for the comments friends :wave:
Right Manpreet, money should not be spend unnecessary… just to show off ur status :no:
Waise Poonam, pehle sisters ki shaado hoti hai… so you need to marry first :yes:
So Govind you need to wait for the invitation… 😉
Poonam says
wah wah wah archer.. so bahen maan liya hai toh that means ke hamari shaadi main tum meri side par khade hoge…..baraati main naachte nahi aana. :rotfl:
bahen ke baad turant bhai ki shaadi hoti hai..ab kaunsa bhai pehle shaadi karne wala hai? archer? manpreet? yaa phir govind? 😉
Manpreet says
archer dude…
yaar shaadi kar le na..!! haven’t attend a shaadi.. since a long long time… 😛
ladki dhoondi hui hai… ya… still looking?
Ankur says
Poonam:!: I can’t dance 😉
Anyway, Manpreet is first in line 😀
Manpreet:!: :no:
Manpreet says
oh.. then lets start the process… send me your profile.. lets register on shaadi.com
Govind says
Shaadi times!!. 😀
Well, archer bhai lets post ur profile on shaadi.com. 😉 We’ll get a good match for you. Later on we can plan, who will marry when. I also did nt attended a marriage since long. 😛
Aur meri shaadi ke liye, abhi time hai. Jab karungaa will let you know folks. 🙂
Poonam says
i love this topic.
anyway…Manpreet has the right idea. Shaadi.com, bharatmatrimony.com, wherever else you want us to register you..we will.
Aur Govind..tere ko toh batana hi padega..warna Manpreete, main, and Ankur toh aaise hi raid lagaa denge teri shaadi main.
Isliya its better ke tu seedha seedha bataa hi de. 
You know I have never seen a proper South Indian shaadi — hope that yours is the first. 😉
Oye..Delhites..shaadi karo! 😉 Mere ko bhangra shangra karna hai..baraati main naachnaa hai..:razz:
Manpreet says
poonam.. u will have to wait…!!
pehle we will be dancing in your marriage… !!!
Govind says
Zaroor bathaaunga, pakka!!. :thumb:
Yeah, pehle tum shaadi karo Poonam. We are eager to be chief guests there. 😛
Aur humlog dance bhi karenge!!. 😀
Poonam says
i am ready to get married..meri nanad ki shaadi ho jaati hai toh phir toh hamari bhi date nikal aayegi..:smile: so we are just waiting on that.
i hope that ke you all will be on my side and not neeraj’s.. waise you have known me longer. 😉 so please no crossing the border and heading over to the baraat.. 😛 aur phir aaisa hi hai..toh mere ko abhi se bataa deo…meri sakhiyaan ko kahongi ke neeraj ke saath saath..tum teeno ke bhi shoes chupaa de.. 😛 :rotfl:
waise tum log sab dance karogai..aur main??? 🙁 Mere ko bhi dance karna hai.. 🙁
Delhites — Shaadi karo :thumb:
Ankur says
Manpreet ❗ I will email you the profile in few years time 😉 In the meantime, you can post Govind’s profile 🙂
Manpreet and Govind, please carry one extra pair of shoes at Poonam’s wedding 😀
Govind says
Ankur bhai, meri chinta math karo!!.Now I cant explain more on that here. Will tell you later. 😎
Bolo when you are sending your profile??. 😛
Ankur says
Govind:!: I did sent you my profile… check your mailbox again 😉
Poonam says
ladki dhoondh rahe ho toh mere ko bolo..
main match fixing kar waa dehti hoon tum sab ki :stirthepot: :rotfl:
Manu says
Marriage???:shock:
Kar hi lo Ankur abh tum shaadi….then your brother will have to take me to India…:hyper: I know some nice & beautiful girls in India…kaho tou contact info doon???:cool::wink::lol:
Puneet says
so many comment 😯 havent read all but would do so latter
Reaction on post….. net marriage i mean ERRR how lazy can people get….and how boring and sad net marriage would be without the normal marriage dhamal , fun and masti.. without music, dance , food,
India is special coz there so many different style of marriage with its own custom and ritual… like maharashtrian marriage Punjabi marriage bengli marriage, north Indian south India… etc etc each with its own special thing….
marriage is somehting like … somehting speciall….and there no harm if someone spends on it.. so that that it can be remembed…
yeah many a times people do blow out of proportion but it like spend how much one can afford.. like… a person some months ago I read in paper there was wedding of steel baron Lakshmi Mittal son or his daughters and he apparently spend cores on it … well he could so be it….
Have it flaunt it.. it becomes a status symbol… not only for rich .. but also.. for poor.. suppose.. if he can afford a marriage which would cost him 20,000 that person would take loan from someone landlord etc and spend 30,000 its human mentality…. People do .. indulge into… take it as to fulfill their wish to have grand marriage for their son/daughter or… to show off it does give them sense of pride or happiness
Puneet says
my last comment compensates for being absent blogoshpere for weeks :laugh:
Poonam says
Manu Bhabhi.. aap hi samjhaao aapke devar ko.. 🙂
shayad aapki baat se maan jaayega. 😉
Ankur ji.. ab demand aur bhi jyaada ho gayi hai.. bhabhi ki baat taal nahi sakte. 😀 Shaadi karo Delhite! :yes:
Ankur says
Yeh kya ho raha hai…
This is a clear case of Mis-Interpretation 😯
I never agreed to it… was just kidding with Govind :yes:
Ankur says
Thanks Puneet for your comments :wave:
Manu says
seriously Ankur…get married…if u don’t agree main apne aap se hi ladki pasand kar loongi:yes: phir pasand ho na ho…shaadi karni padegi:hyper:
Poonam says
great going!!! I am 110% with your bhabhi’s thinking Ankur!!
chalo ab toh baraat nikalega….meri ticket jaldi se bhej deo Ankur.. chicago to delhi. 😀 Neeraj Mumbai se aa jaayega. 😉
Manu says
:thumb:Ankur, abh tou main mummy is baat kar hi leti hoon…your brother is also getting all excited about your marriage:knocked:kehtaa hai khoob bhangraa daloonga:hyper:bhai ki shaadi par:hyper:
Poonam says
arre wah..kitni jaldi baat toh tumhari mummy ko bhi pahunch jaani wali hai Ankur….:smile:
ab toh nahi bach sakhogai.. Bhabhi aa rahi hai..
aakhir main is saal hi leh jaaogai apni dulhaniya ko ❗
bahut sahi post likha hai….khud ki baat banaa dee 😛
Jaldi se kar deo bhabhiji…before Ankur manna kar de 😉 🙂
Ankur says
I wish I could have carried with it… but I have consulted a Priest, he said.. “not to marry before year 2008” :yes:
So that ends the controversy :clap:
kaush says
Wokay everyone! Kiski shaadi ho rahi hai? Kaun gadhe pe….errr ghodi pe chad raha hai?:attack: Waise yeh kya baat hui…online shaadi is no fun! Although I am sure some people would like jhatpat online divorce. All I have seen of weddings is gujju weddings and punjabi ones on TV…agree with you all that weddings should be fun and masti! So who is getting married next so that I can attend?:cool:
Manpreet says
Kaush… poonam will be the first one among us to get married…
BTW, what about u? tera number kab aa raha hai? Haven’t attended a gujju marriage ever!! 🙂
kaush says
LOL..filhaal to main bhi line main khadi hoon pondering, wondering, asking innocently– ke “Mera number kab aayega?”:?: but rest assured you shall have the pleasure of attending a gujju shaadi 😀
Govind says
Priest ki baathon main mat aanaa!!. Waise bhi, If you want, we can arrange a timemachine for you which will take us to 2008. Ab bol, karegaa shaadi??. 😛
Matrix to dekha hoga. 😉
@Kaush: I never attended a gujju shaadi, do send me the invitation to attend your marriage. Thanks. 🙂
Poonam says
wah wah kaushal ben..tusi bhi aa gayi ho savaari ke saath? :attack:
well..abhi pata nahi ke main pehli hoti hoon ke nahi…see baat yeh hai ke Manu Bhabhi is on a mission now.. Ankur dear ki Mumma ko bhi ab khabar mil gayi hogi….ladkiyan dhoondhna bhi shuru ho gaya hoga…
i think shayad by the end of May tak toh sab kuch finalized bhi ho jaayega.. 🙂
Isliya Ankur practice schratice kar lo…ghodi par baithna.. 😛
Manu says
Who is going to listen to the preist, Ankur?:grin: Jab honi hai tabh tou ho hi jaayegi…bus abh tou tum apni pasand batao…and I will find a girl for you:razz: Tumhe kuch nahi karnaa padegaa:hyper:
Poonam says
wah wah wah :clap: sahi kaha hai.. panditji toh side main ho gaya hai. nice try Ankur. 😉
ab toh main gaaongi..
“mere yaarrrrrr ki shaadi hai….”
Ankur says
Thanks Kaushal for your comments 🙂
Govind:!: first send me the time machine, then I will think about it… 😛
Bhabhi:!: I can’t go against the Priest wishes :no:
Poonam:!: itni bhi kya jaldi hai.. abhi intezaar karo… bahut samay baki hai 😎
Poonam says
mere ko naachna hai Ankur..isliya jaldi hai. :guitarist:
Manpreet says
Ankur.. mujhe tune apni profile nahin bheji.. sirf goving ko bheji… does that means you are interested in gals only from Germany?
Poonam says
:clap::clap::clap:
Priya says
o man kya khabar hai…but i have question…how is the first night taken care of:razz:
Ankur says
Right Manpreet 😉
Waise the topic was Nikah and not Shaadi… so everybody going on the worng track :yes:
Poonam says
archer jee tusi kah lo jo bhi kehna par tumhari toh shaadi hoke hi rahegi…aur lagta hai ke is saal hi shehnayi bajne wali hai..kyon Manu Bhabhi?? :rotfl:
Poonam says
koi ladki pasand ho toh bol deo..behshak usse hi pehle baat karenge..kyon bhai aur bahen logon??? 🙂 :thumb:
Poonam says
aaj lagta hai mera spamming karne ka mood hai :flame:
Poonam says
:flamed:
Manpreet says
Poonam.. must say that your spamming skills are improving my leaps and bounds!!
LOL @ Priya…
Puneet says
:knocked:
Ankur says
Pooonamjee:!: There is nobody :no:
Govind says
German girls, no problem. Ready kya Ankur bhai!!. 😎
Will pass it on to German girls. Do let me know. 😛
Poonam says
update karo dost!!
Jenny says
Hehehhee, Nice post
keep on posting 🙂
Jenny says
Hehehhee, Nice post
keep on posting 🙂
Ankur says
Yes Govind! I am ready 😉
Right Poonam 🙂
Thanks Jenny :wave: